Wirtten by Michael Dat who specializes in dating techniques for men. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Fear of Rejection: How To Overcome Rejection From Women
Wirtten by Michael Dat who specializes in dating techniques for men. Visit http://www.datingquestionsformen.com for more dating and seduction tips.
Friday, May 9, 2008
Online Romance: Find and Keep Your Relationship!!!
How can one define romance? Is there any rhyme or reason behind what people think and feel is romantic and qualifies as true romance? Probably not. It always comes down to personal preferences and individual personalities. Romance in a relationship can infuse a bit of that early-relationship excitement and keep things from becoming too “comfortable”. The principals of romance can also be applied to online dating. We have compiled some fun ideas for showing your online match t...
Written by Teri Plaxton, is an expert at online dating, and has written many very useful articles on the subject. If you really want to find out the secrets of which dating sites, click on the links and read on the articles!
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Reality Differences!!
>I love talking to this man online, and we finally met in reality. My problem is... I have found that I don't enjoy him as much "in reality" as I do online.
This occurs more often than you would think. You have two choices... either tell this person that the chemistry just isn't there, or you can continue to see this person in reality in hopes that the chemistry will occur. When I first saw my husband, my first thought was, "what have I got into"... he wasn't exactly Mr. Atlantis. But, after spending a few days together, I didn't even recognize his awkwardness. If the chemistry doesn't occur within the first month of reality meetings, I'd say that it's not going to happen and it's time to move on.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Five Deadly Sins Of A Relationship
1) Cheating on your partner. Absolutely inexcusable, and both guys and girls do it. I can't even tell you how many times my friends' and family's hearts have been utterly ripped from their chests because the people they love cheated on them. Being unfaithful shatters trust and causes the person being cheated on to doubt his or herself. If you love your partner, you love him or her enough not to cheat. If you can't control your sex drive enough to stay faithful to the love of your life, then you're nothing more than a subhuman animal and you deserve to be alone.
2) Being too controlling. Sure it's funny on TV when a professional comedian plays a hapless, good-natured guy with an evil witch of a wife who calls him every fifteen minutes to demand to know where he is...but in the real world that's not funny, it's exhausting. Don't think I'm just talking about women being too demanding either...guys do it too, and it's not a joke, it's not cute, and it's not justified. It's emotional abuse is what it is, and a lack of trust that's going to end up with you being quite lonely.
3) Lack of regard for your partner's feelings, or emotional support. I know, it's such a cliched expression that I feel silly just using it, but not giving your partner the emotional support he or she needs is a painful and self-esteem damaging thing. When the one you love has a difficult time seeing how much you DO love him or her, it hurts! Most of this can be helped just by listening to your partner...really listening, and responding like a human person rather than a parrot. A little support from the one who loves you isn't too much to ask, so don't be stingy in giving it.
4) Letting fights get out of their role. Whenever two people are stuck together for extended periods of time, even if those people love each other desperately and passionately, there are going to be clashes where one person feels one way and the other a different way...that's life, that's relationships. It can even be healthy to clear the air sometimes, but when you let a fight expand outside the boundary of being helpful, it starts really harming your relationship. Don't just shrug off your partner's concerns, but don't take fights too seriously either. Oh, and a tip for making fights a little less impactful: give in every now and again. ;)
5) Boredom and lack of spontanaeity. I feel physical pain every time I hear about a happy couple breaking up because the relationship became stale and boring. There is so very little reason why your time with the one you love should end up becoming more of a day-to-day routine than a constant joy. Do what's needed to make things stay interesting and fun! You're two great people in love, why shouldn't every day together be a blessing? Letting a relationship reach its expiration date should be a crime, because it's just such a tragic waste...
Well now you've been versed in the basic Five Deadly Relationship Sins. Any one of these can really cripple your relationship, and even the person you share it with...so in the name of anything you consider holy, avoid hurting the one you love by keeping these things from ever having a chance to destroy your relationship. With a little bit of trust, care, and decency, your biggest threats can be absolutely nothing.
So before you do something that'll jeopardize your relationship, stop and think. Is it really worth it to hurt your partner and become alone? Have a brain, and have a heart.
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Wednesday, March 5, 2008
I'm Not Comfortable
"I have this friend in Texas (I'm in Wisconsin) that I have been chatting with for over a year. I'm planning a winter vacation to Galveston, but she doesn't want to meet me there."
Have they stated why they don't want to meet you in Galveson? Maybe it is a trust issue or maybe they are just scared to take the relationship from the online world to the real world for some other reason that you may not understand.
What we have to realize is that some people are such introverts that they just don't want to have contact with the "outside" world. They want their online friends and they are happy with that. Some people do not like to be around other people; therefore, online relationships are great for having a social life without having to be around others.
Could be that they are really just looking for a friendship instead of a relationship. If they meet you "in reality" then that will take the friendship into a new dimension, which they are scared of.
Should you talk them into it? No... would not work in the long run. The possibility of getting them out of their shell is about nil.
Take the online friendship for what it is and start looking for a true online relationship if that is what you are really looking for.
Be patient... true love will find a way!
Friday, February 29, 2008
Where Should I Take Her On A Date?
First of all, if you have been talking online for a while then you should know her likes and dislikes. What foods does she like? What activities does she like? What is some of her favorite drinks?
1. Small restaurant. This does NOT inlcude McDonalds, Wendy's, or Burger King! Find some nice little pub downtown or small sandwich shop for a casual meeting.
2. Coffee shop on the corner. Nothing like a little Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts to get a relationship going!
3. Pick someplace with a view! What about a nice little shop near the mountains or the beach? What about a view near a lake?
4. What about sports? How about bowling or golf would sound great to me.
5. Movies are okay, but doesn't leave much room for talking. I would suggest this one as a second date.
6. Sports Bar. Pick somewhere that the main focus isn't just seeing how much you can drink. Pick a place with great food!
Hope these few hints will get you started!!
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
When They Ask For Sex
If the other person starts talking about getting together and you are not ready, then just tell them! I thought that online romancers where smarter than this? But, to my suprise, a lot people don't tell the other person that this makes them uncomfortable.
After telling the other person that you are not ready to get into the sexual aspects of your relationship, do they stop or pressure you on? If they really care about YOU as I person, I believe that the person will stop asking those questions. And if they don't, this is a definite sign that this "wonderful person" online may actually be a predator.
Remember to use your common sense!!!